FRIENDSHIP – Class of 1988

Hey 🙂

 Me and few friends are in the midst of organizing a get together with our ITM SS 10 Class of 1988, Kota Bharu/Kuantan Branch. It has been quite some time since we planned this actually. I managed to gather quite a number of friends already but seemed to be unable to get a suitable date just yet. I am working hard on this really and very much looking forward for this to happen very soon. Amen.

Anyway, personally, from the most bottom of my heart, friends or friendship are my most favorite word to which I utterred at least five times in a day. I am who i am today majorly for the friends that I have around me eversince I know how to befriend and what friends really means.

Believe or not my favourite tagline is, husband leaves but friends dont?  Ask me why i said this, I also dont know man but one thing for sure, I have experienced how my friends would stood and fought with me on many difficult times when even a family member can only show sympathy, no more no less.

God I treasure friendship. Cant really live without them. No doubt along the way, we came accross all sorts eh. The best ones are who actually speaks the truth even truth hurts coz we need to know the truth.  We may curse, bertekak or whatever but at the end of the day, they do it coz they love us. Thats it.

Oh and the worst one? The ones who stab. Worst, they stabbed from the back!. Its like OMG!  As best pal or friend, only God knows how much stories or happenings that we confide in each other. Its like we trust with our heart, but at the end of very day, the stories are used against you! Oh man, it bled badly i tell you. For a moment, you wished this sort of friend death!  hehe

 Some friends keep in touch and some dont.  Well, its a busy world indeed.  But good friends are never far really.  They are nowhere else but in our heart 🙂

To my friends all over the horizon, lets grow old together, shall we? 🙂 . We  might even berbesan (ha ha ha).  And i guess, this is where one wise friend of mine concluded, friends thats turn family !

 Cheers !

Marry or Not To Marry?

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One of the favourite thing that many people do nowadays is getting married. Its like the ultimate thing in life? Oops… it is not afterall?

 Ok fine.  An outstation friend over YM chat imposed a typical question to me the other day that really knock my head. He loves me, but why is he delaying in proposing? What is there to wait? Do I wait?

Hmmm. Without even thinking (for serious, i hope) i said well he should not.  Personally, I have always believe that marriage is one thing that many of us do without even thinking. We just loving. What is there to think anyway!.  See this is what went wrong. Thinking too much when it comes to marry or not to marry.

Love, I believe is one noun that none of us really understand what it means. Trust me we dont. We say it often enough that we dont even understand what it means anymore.  We thought we love, but at the end of the day, we leave?  We feel love but again, we curse?  Well, till today I still cannot figure out how can someone who actually say, I love you only decides to walk out or leaves after say, 20 years or 3 years of loving. Wow there is an end to love? Think about it.  I dont love and stop loving.  If you really love, love it is. Full stop.

Thing is, live to this challenge my friend. If you think marriage is the answer, please do it. Dont think. But if you feel the need to think and believe me, thats not a good sign.  As simple as that. I thank God that I dont think that much back then. He he 🙂

Do you think then, gang?

HAPPY BIRTH DAY

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24 July.  Its another birth day of the person I love almost most in my life.  While wishing him all the Doa and happiness in the world, i must say somehow or rather birthdays has always been a major ‘thing’ in my life.

Many dont really do this birth day thing, i m sure while many also looking forward to it. But perhaps today would be a good time for us to ponder how important and extravaganza this event is. Birth and day (Birthday) is definitely a significant event in women’s one life i m sure. What more if she is a mother, its like hey, its the ‘birth’ day of may be the first, second, third, bla bla so forth of birth of her children. Its like a rememberance of those long anxiety. The pain, the wait, the curiousity, the joy, the gratefulness you name it of that ‘forever’ nine months till the birth day finally appears 🙂

As for us as human, our day of birth would be a remarkable benchmark to actually make a pause, take a deep breath, look back and hey, what have I ve achieved? What have i become in this short life of ours.  We are all busy people i understand, so this would be a good moment in time to just make a short pause and think. Perhaps, this Birth Day would be a good start to even plan ahead what we want to be on our next birth day ? Hmmm

So anyway, to those who celebrate birthday today, its your day man! Enjoy!

May Allah blesses and may happiness will be our ultimate achievement of all time as years passes to mark our another birthday !

Take care.

Human Error

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Heard so much of this Myth but never actually know what it means till yesterday  I lost my car keys  after 10 years of driving.  Strange as it may sound but I was almost sure that I locked my car and kept the keys in my bag. Thing is, when I discovered that hey where were keys, cocurrently I also realized the car was not even locked!

For a moment, I question myself. Eh I tot i locked it?  Hmmm and now I dont even have the keys.

So, what I m trying to say is, life is so weird enuf when how  many times along this life when we actually surely ‘thought’ that we did something, but fact is we did not even doing it! One wise friend was trying to capture this by saying, possibly our brain is thinking faster then the rest part of our body? Hmmm.

For a moment in time, after much sumpah myself here and there, i said hmmm perhaps this is what they say, human error?

Wadya u think?

Say hello to me

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Wow this is superbly amazing! After all these time, I am finally here. I must say, I have always into writing. So much to write but clueless where to begin. Sound familiar eh. Well if you ask me, let us all blame on this ‘malas’ disease that we have in most of our oneself.

But today I know is the day. Least to offend anybody, but this blog would be where I pen my feelings, view and opinion on how I see life personally, coz God, we ve indeed been tru loads in life ! U name it. Each and everyone of us, openly or shyly would have some stories about our life that we thought is the most happening of all time.

So, today is the day that I will start sharing with you people what is our short life is all about and I can only imagine one word – fun :).

Enjoy !